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Saturday, July 5, 2008
"sometimes life's just lk that" ran away @
I've just read 2 famous blogger's blog .Namely xiaxue and dawn yang 's .I wonder how will both of them look at each other FACE TO FACE after this incident .I mean lk act as if nothing have happened but actually there's a hatred inside you and you're just surpressing th hatred so as not to go to jail for tearing th person into a million pieces ?Seriously , why do girls always get into such situations ?I personally have experienced it and i could only say that its a terrible terrible feeling .Imagine from th best of friends to betrayer/bitch/everything bad .If both were once friends and after balting your eyes both of you treat each other as thou you're still friends but in fact you just can't wait to finish th other off .Won't you find it weird to look at each other in th eyes th next time and say hello ?For me , yes . I find it super weird and lk i've said by pretending that everything is fine just sucks big time ! But there's 2 solutions to th problem . One - Look at th other person in th eyes and tell her you dn't lk her and that you wished not to have any connections with him/her and ask him/her to fcuk off or two - Ask th other person whether he/she would still lk to be friends and if she/he still would still lk to , th first step to getting back th friendship , look at th other person in th eye and tell him/her why you detest her and th other person would do th same too and after knowing why he/she was detested maybe he/she would decide to change for th better . I dn't know but these are personally what i think i would do in future if there's anymore such things happening to me . Its better to gain another friend than to gain another enemy . I know i've been a bitch myself , lkwise i'm trying to change to be a better person . And i think most of my friends would agree that i've changed to a better person compared to th times when i was still in sec one . But i'm still working on it . Thou i've lost a close confidante i've definately open my eyes really really big this time and know who my true friends are . And for that i thank all of you girls for being there when i'm in need of a shoulder to cry on , a listening ear or even buying food for me when my leg was injured . This are what friends are for , helping one another when in need lk what many others say . But there's always a limit to giving . You can't expect th other half to keep on giving and giving but when he/she needs you, you're just always not there for her . So people , in life there's definately going to be ups and downs but thru these ups and down you'll be able to see who you're true friends are .But in th process no doubt you'll feel hurt but its definately worth it . And once again , i would lk to thank those of many who stood by me when i need help . Thanks alot :) I love you girls and guys p.s. and not forgetting you :) |